The friends of Allah know that the purpose of creation is "to make others happy".
At the starting point, all people have fights in their outer world, that is, in their relationships with others.
The soul wants to be superior to everyone else, or at least to appear superior. For this reason, it always tries to convey the impression that it is so. " In the background there is the effort of "I am superior to you. Respect me." This is a common characteristic of all souls.
Every such behaviour causes a negative impact on the other person. Every action results in a reaction. He tries to prove that he is superior to you. Thus, there is either an obvious disagreement between you or a stress that is not expressed but manifests itself in behaviour.Each time one of the sides is going to be offended, there is no alternative.
Is it enough? It is not enough. The offended person will always respond with retaliation when the opportunity arises. These ongoing events make both sides eager to take revenge. If he can take revenge, Allah Almighty torments that person, gives him restlessness, and his spirit gives restlessness to his soul. If he cannot take his revenge, this time his subconscious accumulation makes him restless.
The fight in your outer world ends when you get along with other people in the best possible way. This comes with the realization of happiness in your inner world. When you have eliminated all the vices of the soul, you no longer have to prove to people who you are. The days of proving to them that you are superior by being arrogant, hurting them, or belittling them will be long gone.
A person who has been cleansed of the vices of the soul has attained the truth of Allah: "The more I am for others, the closer I can be to them, the more I can love them, the more I can help them, the more I can be a part of their happiness, the more happiness I will experience."
“You will not enter Paradise until you have faith and you will not have faith until you love each other. Shall I show you something that, if you did, you would love each other? Spread peace between yourselves.” HADITH-I SHERIF